Young children seem to get it right better than any of us adults do when it comes to being their true authentic self. They sing, laugh, dance & live with an abundance of energy and no worries of whether anyone else is watching or of what anyone thinks of them.
It is none of your business of what others think about you
Since we have a desire to bond and be accepted by other people, we self-consciously watch what we say, how we say it and decide whether to be agreeable or complacent.
You have a choice of whether or not to take on the belief of what others think of you. Basically, you need to ignore it or risk feeling any potential imbalance because of it. What others think about you is simply a theory and opinion,…not a fact! It is up to you to make the decision to dismiss it and to not let it have any impact on you what so ever. In other words, it is none of your business of what others think about you.
Four key factors that affect the way other people can make you feel
- The mood that the other person is in, and if they are feeling positive or negative.
- Whether they are emanating a sense of fear or love towards you.
- The intensity of their personality and whether they have a desire to make others feel inferior or accepted.
- Your ability to protect your emotions from another person’s negative vibe.